The Validity of Giving While Living

By: Riley Burridge

Much of the conversation around financial planning focuses on preparing for the future, crafting a thoughtful estate plan and ensuring your legacy is protected for generations to come. But will that bring you joy?

Consider the story of Olivia and Nicole—a mother and daughter whose journey illustrates the transformative power of timely generosity.

Fifteen years ago, Olivia experienced the emotional and logistical challenges of inheriting a sudden windfall following her father’s unexpected passing. The inheritance was deeply meaningful—an echo of her father’s character and care—but it also brought confusion and weighty decisions at a vulnerable time.

Now 54, Olivia is determined to do things differently for her daughter, Nicole. Rather than wait until her estate settles, Olivia wants her support to be timely, purposeful, and affirming. She hopes to provide help that encourages Nicole’s ambition without undermining the drive that fuels it.

At 25, Nicole is on the cusp of a remarkable career. She’s in her final year of medical school, with dreams of becoming a cardiothoracic surgeon. But between student loans and the years of low-paid residency that lie ahead, financial security remains a distant goal—perhaps 15 to 20 years away. The stress is real, even as the future shines brightly.

Olivia saw this and acted. With guidance from her advisors, she made deliberate, informed choices that would alleviate Nicole’s burden without compromising her own financial wellbeing. She gifted her daughter a house and a diversified portfolio of stocks, assets that offered both stability and flexibility.

For Nicole, this generosity wasn’t just financial, it was emotional. For the first time in years, she saw a light at the end of the tunnel. She felt seen, supported, and understood. What might have felt like a transaction years from now—part of an estate, arriving after loss—became instead a moment of connection, a gesture filled with presence and love. It didn’t just change her financial picture; it changed how she saw herself in the world.

Instead of facing her 20s overwhelmed by debt and stress, Nicole now has the freedom to focus on what matters most—her studies, her personal growth, and her dreams. The gift came exactly when it was needed, and its impact will be felt for decades.

Olivia and Nicole’s story is a powerful reminder that your legacy isn’t just about what you leave behind. Sometimes, it’s about what you choose to give right now—and the joy that comes from witnessing its impact.

If you’re wondering whether you can afford to make lifetime gifts, we invite you to start the conversation with us at The Wealth Conservancy. Let’s explore how your generosity today could help shape a brighter tomorrow for the people you love most.

Disclaimer: The events and characters in this article are based on real people and occurrences, but certain details have been altered or fictionalized to protect privacy and maintain confidentiality. Any resemblance to actual persons or events is unintentional and purely coincidental.